Thursday, December 29, 2011

A Perfect Lie

People in my world, primarily those that I had relationships with - friends, boyfriends, etc., would say things such as, "You will come up with something else in a year or so to believe in," implying that my stand for World Equality and the Equal Money will be short-lived.


I am responsible because I have accepted abuse and separation and allowed them directly or tacitly through my participation. The strange thing is no one said when I was studying Judaism, for example, that my beliefs would be short-lived.


This may be because Judaism is more socially acceptable so it was less confrontational, and doesn't cause people to stop and consider their own life or to look at themselves and what they have accepted and allowed themselves to participate in and become.  Whenever people hear about Equal Money, World Equality, self-responsibility, self-forgiveness, self-honesty, and self-correction, many people have reactions based in fear which cause people to question their own belief systems. Maybe everything they have believed in and have been busy programming themselves to believe in their entire lifetime has been lies.


It can be quite sobering to realize that everything we have ever existed as - has been a lie. We can't blame anyone else for this as no one can actually lie to us because we are the lie and have accepted it.


In order for one to exist in this world without guilt, one must not be willing to take responsibility for what is here. One must become absolutely delusional and this delusion is built slowly over time, brick-by-brick, until one day, this entire house of self-deception is built and 'seems' quite strong and stable. And one lives in their comfortable home of self-made delusion in order to cope with what is really taking place in this world.


Let's face it -  to live in this world without guilt or shame for not doing anything about the atrocities in this world, one must become fully delusional and live in the mind in some type of alternate reality.


Self-responsibility, self-honesty, self-forgiveness and self-correction are all words of self -direction, meaning one takes responsibility for what one has accepted and allowed, and no longer allow one to sit in a comfortable house of beliefs, ideas, opinions, and blame, but practically does something to change themselves to change the world as a whole, so that the atrocities in this world such as abuse and separation are no longer accepted or allowed and no amount of justification or delusion will stop one from doing and living this self-realization in self-honesty in every moment of breath. Of course, this is a process and does take practice. But to see all of this and then go back to some belief system would be difficult because once one sees what one has done and participated in, one realizes that one can only spite oneself.


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Sunday, July 31, 2011

"There is nothing so bad that it couldn't be worse."

At my new job on the computer screen someone stuck a sticky note on it that says  "There is nothing so bad that it couldn't be worse."

It is interesting this idea and perception of gratitude in this case one compares ones situation to what is worse and then says  things like this "Well I'm so grateful that I don't have to live like them my life could be much worse, after all I could be dying of starvation or something."


Participation in ideas like this or any idea for that matter is abusive simply because one never actually takes full and unconditional self-responsibility for the horrific things that human beings experience day in and day out.


If one is able to consider placing one's feet in the shoes of another or rather or the lack there of and consider the deprivation many human beings experience in this world because they do not have access to their basic needs - the requirements we all here with a physical body need to simply live in this world such as clean water, clothing, shelter, food, education and healthcare.

Millions upon millions of people all around the world experience the daily scenario of not having access to clean drinking water or not knowing where they will find their next meal, those that do not have proper shoes and clothing, those that can not see a doctor if they are ill, those that are illiterate. We can clearly see this is a tragic way for anyone to have to experience themselves especially considering we have the resources we need on this planet so that all can be supported equally.

Within this realization we have the opportunity and responsibility to do something to stop these daily atrocities. 

Our experience as a whole could be what is best for all - like Bernard Poolman stated and I agree "Equality is the ultimate pursuit of happiness." We can remain here, live, express and be happy, enjoying ourselves within and as our environment within an equal money system a system, where all are taken care of from birth till death. We are able to love thy neighbor as thyself, this is not a belief system but a simple self-honest common-sensical point that we are able to see and apply in every single moment. 


Doing what is best for all through unconditionally loving thy neighbor as thyself requires one to be self honest, it is now time to be custodians of this world in this reality, humble ourselves, let go of ego and clean up this mess we have all made together. Lets be sure that no one has to experience the worst of it any longer. We are equally responsible for the existence of the have's and the have not's, pain, suffering, starvation, fear, greed, capitalism, jealousy, separation, envy our accepted and allowed self-dishonesty. Within this realization we can see that a quote to mask and justify our accepted and allowed limitation is simply unacceptable.

Many people have the belief that they are chosen and have an ultimate guard as protection from God and that one day, some day, maybe, possibly they will make it to heaven if they are good servants of God through faith, worship, belief and prayer. The same goes for those that devote their entire life and time to reach a state of Zen and Enlightenment and that one day maybe possibly they will ascend and never have to take responsibility for the mess we have accumulated through time through accepting and allowing separation. All this is done in a state of ignorance and bliss while billions suffer. Time to wake up and stand up for ourselves as life.

At Desteni we have realized that the only solution is an Equal Money System as a means to manifest heaven on earth (World Equality) Statements such as " There is nothing so bad that it couldn't be worse" will not exist in an Equal Money System - this statement exists as a belief in something or someone greater and something or someone experiencing less than oneself.


I dare you to join in and stand as a pillar for and as the solution, the only solution to stop needless suffering and separation in this world and stand equal to all that is here and then realize that no one ever at any moment should have to suffer because of our tacit and or deliberate irresponsibility. 


It is time for us to take off our blinders and see directly. We are here and have been the source of the mess, the only thing to do is take responsibility for it through self-forgiveness, self honesty, self change and change what we have accepted and allowed ourselves to be and become one and equal to in separation to what is best for all; Love thy neighbor as thy SELF this is real love - equality. The primary point that causes us to exist within inequality is the money system thus our starting point has to be to change the current money system of a abuse to a system that is best for all, and again this is an Equal Money System. 


What is best for all is what is best for self.

We do not have to compare our experience and then say well it could be worse - IT COULD BE BEST, BEST FOR ALL, and in this we will never have anything to compare self to because all are here equal and one.


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Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Sex in advertising, my experience



I used to be a major shop-aholic. What is it that always drew me to buy relentlessly? Well of course, marketing. I had to have all the latest fashions, music, shoes, dresses, bras, panties, jeans, hats, scarves anything I could get my hands on. 


When I shopped I felt like I was hunting, I got quite a rush from it. I could feel my heart race and I was stimulated by all the different textures, designs, sounds and colors etc. the whole experience excited my senses. I would not stop until I was satisfied that I found the perfect item such as a hat or shirt to match together with my perfect pair of jeans or whatever it may have been at the time. 


Sex is used extensively within advertising and I now see the correlation between my drive to shop being my drive for sex - with the perfect mate. When I did found that ‘perfect’ item I had been longing for, the experience was nearly orgasmic. So I see now why sex in advertising is so profitable, because we are pre-programmed to clone ourselves, and sex in advertising is all about finding the perfect mate.


When dressing up in the new clothes I pur‘chased’ I had thoughts of looking picture perfect so that I could possibly meet the man of my dreams. Many times I found someone but it was never the perfect mate and just like clothing wares, fades, rips, loses a button or a zipper that gets off track so did my so called “perfect mate”.


 After the clothes no longer looked 'right' I disregarded them and the men I found them in as well. So again I was back on the scene hunting for the perfect clothes once more. Shopping is very much like foreplay - It was like this huge build up and suddenly I would find the perfect item and Viola! – elation because I finally found it, the one I had been searching for. There I was out on the town again, looking for the perfect one/man in my perfect one/outfit. I always looked for the most dapper man I could find. I looked at their shoes first and what type of clothes/cologne/jewelry/cell phone or suit they wore. I paid close attention to how much time and effort they put forth in preparing for their night out. To me it meant that they paid close attention to details. If they like to "pay" attention in what they wore, they will also pay close attention to other things, like the details of my body. Let’s not forget the most important reason why I was attracted to sharp dressed men - it was because it meant they had money. If a man can “afford” to spend all this time and effort on getting dressed he must have money. He must get paid well because he doesn't have to spend most of his time working to pay bills, He can rather utilize his spare time to pay attention to all the minute yet important details in relation to his attire.


 It is the mating game at its finest.  No wonder sex is used so extensively as a way to advertise, it works, it plays on our pre-programming, the desire for the perfect mate, to then create the perfect clone.


 Sex in advertising simply will not be accepted, allowed or regarded in an Equal Money System. We will level the playing field so that all may have equal money and women will no longer be on the prowl for a rich man to support her and their future child and men won’t be looking for sex with women for their future child; Isn’t this the reason why so many women wear things such as push-up bra’s, make-up, short skirts, nylons, perfume, low cut tops and high heels etc? This is what most women use as bait to catch a man - never mind who she is as a human being. It is all about a picture, and women hope that the man they catch will find her physically attractive enough to take her home and fill her up with babies. Is this a self-honest starting point when making the decision to bring a child into the world? Is this what is best for our environment? Is this what is best for animals?  Is it what is best for mankind? No. Utilizing resources for ego-systems is not supporting the eco-system.  


It is no wonder that pictures are used in advertising for products and services - we are being sold a beautiful picture an idea so that we can strive to be that picture and to get a beautiful picture. We can never live up to the picture, so it’s always a hunt and search and here is where we desire to consume, consume, consume. We are never satisfied, we are getting screwed yet we never enjoy it.  


In an equal money system anyone can have sex not just those with money or sexy clothing. Sex will be based in self-honesty and true intimacy lived as agreements that are best for all. Women and men will no longer be impulsed by advertising and no longer limit themselves to an idea that men are only good for money and women are only good for sex.


So next time you are out shopping consider this - Is what I am about to buy something I practically need? Or is this something I have been impulsed to desire through sexual advertising?  Do this with all purchases; you may actually be able to utilize all that extra cash to put toward what is best for all. Wouldn’t that be astounding!


Here is a list of a few examples of items or services currently being sold using sex: Cars, homes, food, clothing, shoes, shampoo & Conditioner, vacuums, milk, perfume, cologne, handbags, cigarettes, liquor, weddings, candy, gum, magazines, movies, toilet paper, hair- cuts, online dating sites, vegetarianism, coffee, socks, sports, baseball, tennis, football, basketball, hockey, golf, lotions, I-pods, internet search engines, Coca Cola, Pepsi, skin care, water, skateboards, jeans, pharmaceutical drugs, plastic surgery, soap, condoms, sex prevention!, cartoons, bowling balls, retro clothing, blankets, sheets, beds, pillows, computers, laptops, cell phones, television shows, computer programs, computer operating systems, televisions, TV remote controls, music, bikes, helmets, motorcycles, flash-drives, deodorant, home loans, pens, pencils, flowers, vacation packages, breast feeding, news, weather channels, paper, post it notes, pool tables, lamps, home furniture, lighting, household cleaning products, brooms, mops, beef, chocolate, fruit, apartments, markers, guns, knives, mints, cameras, jewelry, make-up, restaurants, scuba gear, surf boards, ice skates, umbrellas, snowboards, skiing, massage therapy, art, fashion, music, washers and dryers, refrigerators, air conditioners, dish washing machines, religions, exercise equipment,  addiction, credit cards, TV shows, PETA, chips, leather cleaner, dart boards, paint, tables, tampons, birth control, night clubs, Disney movies, fast food chains, books ,comedy, fax machines, copy machines, television - just about EVERYTHING! And the list goes on and on. 


Why have we made things so complicated for ourselves? We have created advertising to sell things in this world that actually depreciate and diminish the resources of the earth all to stimulate the mind.  This must end. In the Equal Money System advertising will be no more. We will longer be bombarded by advertising on a daily basis. Through our tacit allowance of this we  imply that brainwashing is acceptable? We imply that being impulsed to think, believe and perceive that if we buy certain products or services we will gain access to great sex or the perfect mate within which to create a clone of ourselves.


What are we paying for and what are we receiving? The price we pay is the diminishment of ourselves as life – Time to stop this non-sense and live here within and as the physical – Support World Equality – Support Life – Support the Equal Money System to stop abuse forever more.


Next time we buy shoes let’s make sure they are used as physical support to walk with and not to stalk with.

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Monday, May 16, 2011

Greece's Bailout

The term "bailout" implies that Greece is imprisoned, imprisoned by none other than a money system and unfortunetly this is the same story told in many other places throughout the world.

What I gather from this so-called bailout is that it is not a bailout at all but further enslaves those who have to live up to the terms and interest that is applied in a contract that Greece may not be able to live up to.  Greece was not able to practically get out of their previous debt, so what makes them so sure they can get out of this one?  It's trading a debt for debt.  What is the point?  Is it to buy time and if so what is the cost of time?  Money.  Isn't that interesting...

          It's like borrowing money from a fast cash loan place for a quick hundred dollars to pay for an already outstanding debt that was originally used for basic needs such as food, water, shelter etc., and then come to find out you have an interest rate of 300%, plus if it is not paid back in one week's time there are additional fee's that are incurred, and one never gets out of one's debt and is always spinning in circles trying to pay off loans with other loans.  And the truth of the matter is you are broke as a wine glass in a Jewish wedding.  

Who makes up these rules and how can anything like this self-honestly be applied?  The decisions made by the few will effect all the people of Greece, therefore there should be a vote, and due to a huge lack of common sense and for-sight people are making decisions in a panic and still not considering all.  How can anyone legally create a contract least of all sign a contract when it is doomed to fail?  Furthermore the ones who usually have to suffer the consequences are not the ones who sign these contracts. 

          So instead of applying common sense and looking at the real problem, the government chooses to  'Rob Peter to pay Paul.' I have one question, why the hell does Peter have more than Paul?

An equal money system is the key we are able to use to free ourselves from our self made prison system... I mean, unequal money system.  The time has come where we have to do better than our forefathers and foremothers.  We must self-honestly and practically consider ALL involved meaning all that is physically here under this one Sun, on this one Earth.

If you are a real human being and you dare to live a life of dignity join us in a real solution a solution of equality the solution that is best for all in all ways.


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Friday, April 22, 2011

Health Care with Equal Money is Universal Care


Health Care with Equal Money is Universal Care



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I support World Equality an Equal Money System!

Hello World!

My name is Deedra Chavez and I am a Destonian currently in the process of birthing myself as life from the physical.  

I am walking with a group of people who no longer accept or allow self dishonesty/abuse/separation/fear etcetera.  I have been walking this process for over three years, and it has been interesting, fascinating and fun.  The tools shared by Desteni Productions are simple - breath/self forgiveness/self honesty/self corrective action and common sense.  I have come to realize much about myself and the World.  I also have come to realize that in order for there to be heaven on earth we require to change the way we currently exist and the current monetary system of abuse that cause separation, fear and blame.  I support an Equal Money System and World Equality.

I have made the decision to stand up for myself as life and to no longer accept or allow myself to participate in abuse by no longer accepting or allowing abuse to exist within and as me - as within so without.

You are welcome to walk with me in my process to self honesty.  I enjoy writing about my experiences and sharing how I apply myself to practically change myself to accumulate what is  best for all.  I will be sharing stories, self forgiveness and self corrective statements.  I also enjoy sharing solutions to the current problems of this world through applying a simple mathematical equation 1+1=2 common sense. 

Through my application of self forgiveness in self honesty, I have developed stability and common sense and you can too.  Please feel free to comment and share my blog with others.  We can change the world through the accumulation effect 1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1+1....  each one taking responsibility for self and it starts with breath.  I have been participating in the Desteni-I-Process where others have supported me and walked with me for years and I am grateful to share everything I am facing and exposing myself to let go of fear once and for all.  

Investigate yourself and take self responsibility if you self honestly want to see a real change in the world a change that is best for all a change to stop abuse in all forms once and for all.  


Til here no further.  


We can create a world we can all be proud of and also be proud to bring any child born into this world anywhere they may be located.  Join us.  Be part of the solution so that all can LIVE a LIFE of dignity.

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